When enough sex is not enough

No matter how many eye brows raise to this one but bottom line says that not all get enough sex
and some get even less than that. Where is the problem? What is the solution? Let’s talk.

Communication gap between the couples is one of the major issues in their sexual life. Try to talk to each other about your desires in private moments. Surprises could be good but planned sex creates an attractive image that you together may bring to reality.

If kids don’t leave you alone, send them to their grand parents`s home on weekends. If you have good comaradre with your neighbors then ask them to bear your kids for one night and offer them to bear their kids for the next night.

Regular sex may bring boredom into any couple’s life. You both may try many activities together to heat up the things around you. You may try recreational things like using adult toys to seduce each other. Humor could actually be a big stress buster for your sex life. Do things you both find crazy so you may laugh over them. The idea here is to set your wildness free. Just imagine what all you can do with toys like handcuffs, water pistols etc.

Job stress not letting you do the job in bed? Interestingly, for men, jobs with competition actually boost testosterone which shoots up the libido. This might work for some. But for others, try to rethink if it is really worth letting your health and family life at stack. The company isn’t shutting down if you would start paying equal attention at your home. Choice is yours. It is all about priorities.

Another hassle is the changing body shape, especially of women. Sometimes, it is difficult for men to stay physically attracted to their partner even if they love them dearly. This is where the problem starts. The amount a women is conscious about her body will be reflected in her act on the bed. And the way you look at her is how she comprehends her body.

This reminds me- for a change, why don’t men start looking good for women?