Top After-Sex Mistakes

Imagine…both of you have given your best to your partner from foreplay to the climax, but that one after-sex mistake has the power to ruin all the efforts made in pleasing your lover. Have a look.

Leaving Immediately

Do not leave immediately after sex. Even if you had to make an important phone call, do that after a few minutes. If it can wait all this long it can wait for few more minutes, right?

Leaving your partner immediately after sex makes them feel insecure and ignored. Men often do this without realizing how hurting it is for the woman. The same goes for the women. She may leave for the kitchen or washing the moment she catches up with her breath.

It shows that all this time you were simply waiting for the act to get over so you may leave once it is done.

Falling Asleep right after it

Do not fall asleep right after love-making. Your partner may want it more. He/ she may just want to be cuddled or kissed. Wait for a few minutes to understand the desire of your partner.

Bringing Kids to Sleep with you

Getting the children together to sleep with you is a big no-no! Many married couples make this mistake. With one love-making session over, one of the partners (usually the woman) shall get the kids to sleep with them.

What about the rest of the night? Your partner may be looking forward for a morning sex. But with the kids on the same bed, it simply spoils the mood.

Saying “Thank you”

This could only be in nightmares. Never say “thank you” to your partner, especially if you are a man and your relationship has just started. It is offending and inappropriate. Your partner has tried enough to make you feel extremely special and loved. In return, you should reciprocate with love and not with this word.

Critical

Even if your partner has not been able to satisfy you, don`t be critical in bed. You may bring up the topic later on, by telling how you like it, etc. Men and woman are equally conscious about criticism in bed.

It may leave a mark on the person and they may not be able feel free to express themselves to you the next time.