Difficulty In Having Orgasm
November 25, 2009
Women confess that when it comes to orgasm they never fail themselves through masturbation. Many women find it difficult to achieve orgasm through their partner.
It is not necessarily about choosing a wrong technique. There are several factors that may come in way of achieving orgasm by women.
Causes
Women require enough foreplay to stimulate their sexual urge. Increase in sexual desire increases chances of orgasm exponentially. The only alternative to 20-30 minute foreplay is to touch sensitive parts of her body unexpectedly but gently.
Being uncomfortable in the environment of intercourse, lack of safety (contraceptive method) or self-consciousness about the body are most common factors that come in way of orgasm.
Day to day stress, fatigue, and bad memories associated with sex (sexual abuse) or even the pressure of satisfying the mate may not allow women to be at ease and enjoy the moment.
Certain medications increase irritability in women and decrease sexual desire. Vaginal dryness may make sexual intercourse painful and hence no orgasm is felt. In rare cases, health problems like tumor and multiple sclerosis cause the trouble.
Solutions
Aphrodisiacs can help in boosting her sexual desire. Use lavender scents, cook oysters, serve alcohol. These foods and herbs will get her in the right mood.
Choosing the right sex position is vital. The G-spot and clitoris need to be understood. Most women achieve clitoris orgasm while masturbating. It is the simplest way to trigger their senses.
For clitoris orgasm you may lie behind her and rub fingers on the region. Allow her to feel aroused and then make the major move.
Another way is to allow your chest to rest on hers very closely. While inserting the penis, rub it up and down rather than in and out. This technique helps in getting orgasm early.
Increase lubrication of the vagina. It has been found that lubrication makes the area more sensitive to touch. Either you may wait for her natural lubrication to increase by fingering or apply a water based lubricant.
For G-spot the trouble is you will need to find it first. It lies somewhere inside the vaginal way on the frontal. Once stimulated it helps in giving multiple orgasms.
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